Commitment Is Not a Piece of Cake

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We all wish to maintain a relationship at one point in our lives, but do we ever really stop and consider the true significance of the responsibility of committing to a relationship?

Do we commit to a relationship like we devote to devouring a slice of cake? (Silly analogy, but effective) As in, taking time not only to think but to also question oneself as to whether or not either will be distasteful once a commitment is made.

Is it lust, is it curb appeal, or is it really an intrinsic awareness of compatibility which draws you into making that commitment?

Can you imagine how much serious distress and pain could have been prevented over the years if people would only take commitment more seriously and realize it isn’t just simply quenching a craving or a thirst?

Instinctively, we all want to be in a relationship, but again do we really understand the meanings behind the commitment?

Committing for better or for worse, most of us know that we’re in for the’for better’ part, but what about the worse part?

Being of the human species, tends to set up us to be driven in a way by our feelings, which then makes the things of our heart weigh heavily on the decisions we make.

Hence the failure of relationships over and over again. Our heartfelt momentary actions can blind our awareness of what we see and we are feeling this way.

We are predisposed to commit for many of the wrong reasons or no reason at all.

Once the reality of these flighty decisions begins to hold us accountable, all of a sudden the relationship isn’t so much fun anymore. All of a sudden we are searching for distractions or deflections from that reality. The reasons that blinded us at the beginning are now no longer familiar.

Are we older or even educated enough to know about the importance of understanding what a relationship entails?

Maturity, education and/or experience are extremely instrumental in being able to not only commit to a relationship, but also to continue strengthening it as it grows.

Realistically… committing to North Palm Beach Bat Removal is a very significant decision, one that should never be made out of lust, without serious thought, but mostly never taken lightly.

Commitment should never be taken lightly as it is evidence of ones character and their ability to respect the following.

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